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	<title>Comments on: Drawing the Line Between Family and Financial Advisor</title>
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	<description>Rebalance before it's too late</description>
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		<title>By: Kyle</title>
		<link>http://www.myliferoi.com/2009/11/drawing-the-line-between-family-and-financial-advisor/#comment-2101</link>
		<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 19:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Credit Card Chaser, I agree, the best option is to utilize a fee only planner. That way you know what you are paying up front and you don&#039;t have to question weather or not every reallocation was necessary or if the advisor was just trying to make a quick buck.
.-= Kyle&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.suburbandollar.com/~r/SuburbanDollar/~3/9YbjlG6j_F4/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;iPhone App Review: Home Inventory&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Credit Card Chaser, I agree, the best option is to utilize a fee only planner. That way you know what you are paying up front and you don&#8217;t have to question weather or not every reallocation was necessary or if the advisor was just trying to make a quick buck.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Kyle&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feeds.suburbandollar.com/~r/SuburbanDollar/~3/9YbjlG6j_F4/" rel="nofollow">iPhone App Review: Home Inventory</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.myliferoi.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Kyle</title>
		<link>http://www.myliferoi.com/2009/11/drawing-the-line-between-family-and-financial-advisor/#comment-2100</link>
		<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 19:12:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Financial Samurai, You aren&#039;t paying someone to tell you spend less. In most cases you are paying someone to help you understand what investments will help you to best achieve your goals. I know very little about investing and markets so it helps to have that resource, I just wish it wasn&#039;t family.
.-= Kyle&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.suburbandollar.com/~r/SuburbanDollar/~3/ebIx7VMLEKo/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Create a Home Inventory and Save Your Stuff&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Financial Samurai, You aren&#8217;t paying someone to tell you spend less. In most cases you are paying someone to help you understand what investments will help you to best achieve your goals. I know very little about investing and markets so it helps to have that resource, I just wish it wasn&#8217;t family.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Kyle&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feeds.suburbandollar.com/~r/SuburbanDollar/~3/ebIx7VMLEKo/" rel="nofollow">Create a Home Inventory and Save Your Stuff</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.myliferoi.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Kyle</title>
		<link>http://www.myliferoi.com/2009/11/drawing-the-line-between-family-and-financial-advisor/#comment-2099</link>
		<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 19:08:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Mike Piper, That is the other part, she has never really said if she is actually getting paid off our transactions. I assume she is and I am certain it is commission based since we have never paid her a fee. She also sold us an insurance product I am certain she made a pretty penny on.
.-= Kyle&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.suburbandollar.com/~r/SuburbanDollar/~3/eBBER1jeHtE/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Base Salary Isn’t Everything&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Mike Piper, That is the other part, she has never really said if she is actually getting paid off our transactions. I assume she is and I am certain it is commission based since we have never paid her a fee. She also sold us an insurance product I am certain she made a pretty penny on.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Kyle&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feeds.suburbandollar.com/~r/SuburbanDollar/~3/eBBER1jeHtE/" rel="nofollow">Base Salary Isn’t Everything</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.myliferoi.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Credit Card Chaser</title>
		<link>http://www.myliferoi.com/2009/11/drawing-the-line-between-family-and-financial-advisor/#comment-2094</link>
		<dc:creator>Credit Card Chaser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 07:27:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would stick with a fee only planner instead of someone compensated by sales commission. Granted that most insurance products that is just the way it has to be because that is how the products are designed but the person who is doing the overall planning should be compensated with a fee rather than a commission IMO.
.-= Credit Card Chaser&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.creditcardchaser.com/chris-dodd-indirectly-wants-to-to-make-it-harder-to-get-a-credit-card/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Chris Dodd Indirectly Wants to to Make it Harder to Get a Credit Card&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would stick with a fee only planner instead of someone compensated by sales commission. Granted that most insurance products that is just the way it has to be because that is how the products are designed but the person who is doing the overall planning should be compensated with a fee rather than a commission IMO.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Credit Card Chaser&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.creditcardchaser.com/chris-dodd-indirectly-wants-to-to-make-it-harder-to-get-a-credit-card/" rel="nofollow">Chris Dodd Indirectly Wants to to Make it Harder to Get a Credit Card</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.myliferoi.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Financial Samurai</title>
		<link>http://www.myliferoi.com/2009/11/drawing-the-line-between-family-and-financial-advisor/#comment-2090</link>
		<dc:creator>Financial Samurai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just don&#039;t understand why someone would pay someone to tell you &quot;spend less than you earn.&quot;  How difficult is that?  I can&#039;t imagine someone can&#039;t get free advice from books/online on asset allocation, budgeting, and saving.

Unless you have at least several hundred thousand i assets, and multiple businesses, I&#039;d save your money and find free help from willing people.
.-= Financial Samurai&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FinancialSamurai/~3/hubAiEf5XXg/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A Weak US Dollar Doesn’t Matter Folks!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just don&#8217;t understand why someone would pay someone to tell you &#8220;spend less than you earn.&#8221;  How difficult is that?  I can&#8217;t imagine someone can&#8217;t get free advice from books/online on asset allocation, budgeting, and saving.</p>
<p>Unless you have at least several hundred thousand i assets, and multiple businesses, I&#8217;d save your money and find free help from willing people.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Financial Samurai&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FinancialSamurai/~3/hubAiEf5XXg/" rel="nofollow">A Weak US Dollar Doesn’t Matter Folks!</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.myliferoi.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: ctreit</title>
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		<dc:creator>ctreit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:35:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hiring an advisor from your own family is almost like working with a therapist who is part of your family.
.-= ctreit&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.vilkri.com/site/blog/blog1.php/budgetplanner/does-your-family-budget-have-room-for-a-&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Does your family budget have room for a PupStep Plus?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hiring an advisor from your own family is almost like working with a therapist who is part of your family.<br />
<span class="cluv"> ctreit&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.vilkri.com/site/blog/blog1.php/budgetplanner/does-your-family-budget-have-room-for-a-" rel="nofollow">Does your family budget have room for a PupStep Plus?</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.myliferoi.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Craig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 16:24:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So far I have not taken any financial advisor and am going on my own.  I figure if I start saving now I can worry about specifics down the line when I educate myself more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So far I have not taken any financial advisor and am going on my own.  I figure if I start saving now I can worry about specifics down the line when I educate myself more.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Piper</title>
		<link>http://www.myliferoi.com/2009/11/drawing-the-line-between-family-and-financial-advisor/#comment-2081</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Piper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 13:07:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I suspect that a big part of the issue is due to using a financial advisor who is paid via commission. That causes conflicts of interest regardless of whether you&#039;re related to them or not.

If you use an advisor who is paid only via an hourly fee, you&#039;ll never be wondering if he/she recommended something just because it pays best.

That said, you make good points about choosing sides between spouses. That could still come up with a fee-only advisor.
.-= Mike Piper&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.obliviousinvestor.com/review-the-new-coffeehouse-investor/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Review: The New Coffeehouse Investor&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I suspect that a big part of the issue is due to using a financial advisor who is paid via commission. That causes conflicts of interest regardless of whether you&#8217;re related to them or not.</p>
<p>If you use an advisor who is paid only via an hourly fee, you&#8217;ll never be wondering if he/she recommended something just because it pays best.</p>
<p>That said, you make good points about choosing sides between spouses. That could still come up with a fee-only advisor.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Mike Piper&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.obliviousinvestor.com/review-the-new-coffeehouse-investor/" rel="nofollow">Review: The New Coffeehouse Investor</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.myliferoi.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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